tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8235361617904779214.post9178534589944655276..comments2010-04-20T18:34:37.232-04:00TheLeoDuohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12814823105575111881noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8235361617904779214.post-83670631600130845662010-04-20T18:34:37.223-04:002010-04-20T18:34:37.223-04:00There isn&#39;t anything wrong with having a list, but her pork and six pack but she&#39;ll settle for a four pack....**draws line under the neck repeatedly** How old is Chilli now, closer to 40 than 30 and not married? I mean pork...c&#39;mon. Imagine she met a man who ticked all of the boxes and pork was the only deal breaker. <br /><br />I also wonder what Chilli&#39;s idea of the total package really is. A total package to her, or a total package of the idea that has been fed to a lot of women?<br /><br />I haven&#39;t got a list written down, I used to though. What I prefer to do is tell God boldly what I want in a man in the things that matter to me, honest, loyal, faithful, a man who loves the Lord etc etc etc.I Am...LondonDivahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12198337156060712847noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8235361617904779214.post-85463771989841124882010-04-13T10:48:01.210-04:002010-04-13T10:48:01.210-04:00I don&#39;t think there is anything wrong with a list, as long as it&#39;s not entirely superficial. I had a list (tons of them) and by the time I turned 25 my list went from being wholly superficial to real life characteristics and compatibility. Above all the most important qualities in an SO are characteristics that compliment your own. Even if you want to be superficial, you can&#39;t want a &#39;super fresh baller&#39; when you shop at walmart. I mean you can &#39;want it&#39; but the reality of &#39;getting it&#39; is different. Ok sorry for the tangent, what was on my list which led me to my SO of 2.5yrs - someone who can teach me and I can teach him as well; conversationalist (key b/c nothing&#39;s worse than a man w/o a brain); communication; someone who appreciates me and most important someone who wanted to build a foundation and let me know he was serious about not only a relationship but marriage. Now those coupled with makes me laugh; wants kids etc etc led me to my future hubby :) Most important that I almost left off, he had to be into me!!! Ladies stop falling for these guys that you have to chase around or look up 6months to a year from nwo and not even know if he is your boyfriend but preferably referred to as a &#39;situation&#39;. You are selling yourself short. Never settle!Samanthahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07401525967243173601noreply@blogger.com